Synastry: Venus conjunct his Jupiter but his Venus squares mine?

You both have the same planets aspecting each other just different aspects (Con/Squ) They both are right, it is pretty confusing, but since you are blending two charts together (synastry) you are going to get some of the same planets that aspect eachother differently. I wish i could help clear it up a bit more, but i even get confused on the ones that kinda X each other out. Good Luck though...